Spicy kids often have perfectionism. What’s behind that perfectionism? Shame. Some parents are surprised about what behaviours can actually be perfectionism. 👉scribbling over a picture when they make a mistake 👉being ultra ultra competitive 👉unable to lose at a game (have a meltdown) 👉wanting things to be a certain way (toys lined up in a particular way) 👉refusing to do something unless it’s in a certain order 👉wanting control over things like who walks up the stairs first 👉unable to tole